Bereavement Service

CHUMS Bereavement Service provides community-based therapeutic support for children, young people and their parents/carers. Our sessions are delivered by bereavement-trained therapists and volunteers with 28 years of specialist experience. We offer a compassionate, reflective space where families can express emotions, share memories, and meet others who understand the impact of loss.

 

Children experience the pain of bereavement just as deeply as adults, though their responses vary based on age, maturity, and understanding of the event. Adults often try to protect children by avoiding difficult conversations, but our experience shows that honest, gentle communication can help.

Whilst being mindful of remaining age-appropriate, children need to understand what has happened, what the bereavement means within their family and culture, and reassurance that their emotions are normal responses to someone dying.

Our offer – An annual programme of Bereavement workshops for families living in Luton

Children gain a great deal from meeting peers who have experienced similar losses. With opportunities to understand what has happened and express their feelings, many learn to adjust and grow through their grief.

CHUMS provides an innovative series of workshops for children, young people, and their families. Through creativity, gentle reflection, and shared experiences – families can explore grief in ways that feel safe and natural. It’s important to remember that grief is unique to each person, and everyone experiences it differently. These workshops provide families with a gentle, safe space to express feelings, remember loved ones, and discover supportive coping strategies together.

After an assessment with a CHUMS therapist, families are invited to monthly workshops featuring creative and nature-inspired activities. These activities encourage expression, celebrate memories, and help families reflect on what supports them during difficult times. There is no “right” way to participate, and sharing is always optional.

The programme follows the rhythm of the year – using symbols like seeds, sunflowers, autumn leaves, and snowflakes to explore themes of growth, change, and resilience. With a new theme each month, families notice how grief evolves over time and how creativity, connection, and small acts of love and care can support healing.
These workshops offer a space to be together, express emotions, and support one another through the journey of loss and grief.